She Said, She Said is a podcast featuring lesbian couple Genia and Andrea. Genia is the host of SistersTalk Radio and Andrea is the assistant producer.

In this segment:

*Pros and cons of dating a coworker
*Coming out stories book project
*Adding “No Bisexuals” to your Personal Ad
*Using Facebook to make important announcements
*Why does Facebook use a heart icon when the system announces you’re officially single?
*Really, really really stupid Facebook fan pages
*Featured indie musicians: Nervous But Excited and Juba Kalamka
*Are you a butch lesbian who feels the sting of discrimination?
*Have you ever used the fake SOS call to get out of a bad date?
*Venice 1.06
*Anyone But Me nominated for 10 Indie Soap Awards

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Genia: I wouldn’t want this life for my children. Black males have it bad enough; adding homosexual to the mix throws in a whole new set of challenges. In the end, it doesn’t matter how I feel. If my children are happy, I’m happy. I would tell them I love them and make sure they know they can come to me for support when the challenges become too much for them.

Andrea: I guess if I had a child and s/he came out I would try my best to support and accept him/her for who s/he is. I think parents want the best for their children and want them to have the best life possible. Parents don’t want to see their children struggle and might see that being a homosexual could bring unwanted challenges to his/her life.

Genia: I’m really feelin’ hip-hop artist Reina Williams – who’s actually a self-identified bisexual. I also like Billie Myers (again a self-identified bisexual woman), Tracy Chapman and Ellis.

Andrea: There are some great lesbians making music out there. I don’t know if I can pick a favorite but I definitely have some musicians that rock my world. Here are just a few that I have rolling around my brain: Melange Lavonne, God-Des and She, Tina Schlieske from the group Tina and the B-Sides Movement, Catie Curtis, Tracy Chapman who I think is a lesbian, Tegan and Sara, Ellis, and my new favorite Reina Williams.

She Said, She Said is a podcast featuring lesbian couple Genia and Andrea. Genia is the host of SistersTalk Radio and Andrea is the assistant producer.

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In this segment:

*Our anniversary celeration
*Is your partner discussing your relationship too much on Facebook?
*The Advocate dogs GLAAD: The pot calling the kettle black
*Dealing with a partner who always acts up in public
*How do you deal with closeted friends?
*Yes, Genia is still boycotting MichFest
*White gays and Black gays: what do each of us want?
*Are you feeling an emotional disconnect with your partner since the baby was born?
*Venice 1.05
*Anyone But Me 2.3

Genia: Absolutely. 100% of the time. A lot of lesbians make dangerous assumptions that just because they are same-gender loving females, they don’t have to practice safe sex. If you’re goin’ at it and you’re using a penetration sex toy that you plan to share with your partner, you should always wrap it in a condom. Change the condom before you swap places with your partner. Protect her. Protect yourself.

Andrea: Now I do. With some past partners we never used sex toys, so it was never an issue to think about. Other past partners have used them and then washed them after each use. As I have gotten older and have realized the importance of safe sex I will only use sex toys if we use a condom.

Genia: Very rarely do I find men sexually attractive. I’ve seen gorgeous guys who make me do a double-take as I pass them on the street, but do I want to jump their bones? No. I know a good looking guy when I see one and any lesbian who claims otherwise is lying.

Andrea: I see men sometimes and think he’s hot or that he’s really good looking. I guess it usually stops there though. I’ve never really had any sexual desire towards men that makes me want to do anything other than look at them.

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Genia: Finding a fuck buddy online takes too long. I know because I’ve tried. So no, I don’t do that.

Andrea: I’ve never looked online for fuck buddies. Had I stayed single much longer, I might have considered it! I imagine that the Internet is a great way to find people who are only interested in just having sex. I know people who have talked about searching online to find a hook up for the night.

She Said, She Said is a podcast featuring lesbian couple Genia and Andrea. Genia is the host of SistersTalk Radio and Andrea is the assistant producer.

In this segment:

*The Prop 8 trial
*Venice, episode 1.04
*SeekingSimone.com’s “Men of MySpace” video
*Boxers, briefs or commando?
*Wearing your period panties on a date
*The best time of the day for sex
*How often do you check your Facebook account?
*What do you do to pass the time in the winter?
*Working out, eating better; Genia discusses her food addiction

Genia: Why yes I have – and I’ve done that with women who will never admit they’ve done it. I’m not ashamed to admit I’m – what’s the PC term? – “sexually liberated.” It’s always been my belief that lesbians have a lot of “ex-girlfriends” who are really one-night stands they are afraid of coppin’ to.

Andrea: I have had sex on the first date one time. I don’t really know if we were on a date but we went out and ended up having sex. Generally, I like to wait a little if it is going to be a relationship that I want to last.

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