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If You Were Dating a Woman Who Began Transitioning to Male, Would You Remain in the Relationship?

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Genia: I love the female form and all its curves – especially that curvy backside. It would be difficult for me to continue a sexual relationship with my partner who is transitioning to a male. Yes, I’m aware that many people will say my partner is still the same on the inside. Her inside is only a part of who I love. Most likely, I would end the relationship because neither of us will be what the other person needs.

Andrea: No. I am attracted to women and think that I would have a difficult time keeping that attraction if my partner transitioned to a male. I’m sure some say you stay in it because it’s still the same person. I could handle a change in hair style but change in gender would be difficult.

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2 Responses to “If You Were Dating a Woman Who Began Transitioning to Male, Would You Remain in the Relationship?”

  1. Alissia on November 26th, 2009 12:04 pm

    I think so. Being older than most I have found I fall in love with the person. Yes I am attracted to the form in the beginning, but I fall for the person inside. That doesn’t change even as the body does (and it always does). We get older, more wrinkles, gray hair, additional weight. I have always loved my partner. Changing a few more things wouldn’t change my feelings.

  2. Kim on November 26th, 2009 12:06 pm

    It would depend…

    1. Did our relationship start with this as a plan? I mean, if I knew from the jump my ‘she’ wanted to be a ‘he’ how could I in good conscience dump her/him for the change?

    2.Do I love her? If I do, it’s thick or thin so I would stay.

    Realisticly speaking…I prefer the masculine appearance in my partner & even though I love the look and attitude of the “stud,” my only interest is in women who are happy being women with no intentions of gender reassignment.

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